Do you believe in the concept of soul mates? I think I do. I think there is one person in that you are meant, truly to be with. Will you know once you see them (i.e. love at first sight)? I doubt it, but I think once you know, you know. End of story.
But what if that person you are meant to be with is a murderer? Could you stand knowing that he has killed another human being without a second thought? Would you stay?
What if that person was a depressive manic and suicidal? And although, you, family, and friends all offer her endless amounts of help, in the end she's just not happy. You know, with in a year, she will be dead by her own hand? Do you stay with her and deal with the consequences later?
What if that person was a cheater? That, even though you both cry over the times he has hurt you, you know it's never gonna change? Deep down, that's just his nature? Do you stay and try to get through it by trying to change him or forgiving and forgetting, or do you leave him?
What if the person you are meant to be with is not the person you want to be with at all? What path would you choose?
Or, what if you are not meant to be with anybody? Do you constantly pursue a life with a partner or accept a life of solitude?
What path would you choose?
I feel like sometimes people confuse happiness with love.
ReplyDeletei feel like i don't know what happiness is sometimes,because i am not afflicted with things like depression, or a bad cheating habit
i feel like its some obstacle to beat. When i quit smoking i can be happy, but there's a lot more work that has to follow. i feel like you have to work for happiness and love, or sometimes, even survival in this 21st century world.
True, love is not perfect, you never know what will happen. That's why relationships are always tricky and in the end you may get hurt but sometimes it's worth it.
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